A Good Recipe of Intentionality, Vulnerability, Longevity and the X Factor!

I recently experienced time with my “Cabin Family. ”  Once a year, sometimes twice, we carve out time for this treasured week up north in Minnesota. We are just four families, but the group has grown over the twenty years as some of our children have married, others are dating and some now have children.

These folks are the ones I call, “Lifers” you know the ones you are sure will be with you for a life time. In my book Lily PadsStories of God on Display, I write a chapter on relationships/friendship and it talked about a phrase which impacted me. “People come into your life for a reason a season or a lifetime.” Yep! These are some of my “lifers.” As I returned home I was both reflective and thankful for these relationships and the support system they have been for me.

I told my cousin one of the main things that has held this group together is the love of God and His son Jesus. He’s been the central figure and the “X factor.”

“And He is before all things and in Him all things hold together.” Colossians 1:17

Yes, for sure Christ is our glue! He is why our friendships formed in the first place and He is what has held us together through all the good and bad seasons.

I posted a few photos on social media and later I had a conversation with my cousin. I told her, other than the Jesus factor, a few things have had to be present as well. These are: intentionality, vulnerability and longevity.

She and I often talk for long conversations about anything and everything. Seriously, no stone unturned…so as we dialogued about having a support system, I knew the “cabin family” fit into the description.

She said, “I looked up some definitions and was thinking about things along this line.” I later asked, “Hey, send me some of what we talked about and I’ll include it in my next blog, I’ll be sure to mention you?”

“Rachel, I don’t need you to mention me or my blog, Who I Am!  Just use whatever you want.”

My cousin Annie, is an incredible woman with many giftings, one being administrative abilities and a heart to “get-er-done!” So…

Not too long after, I received an email. I’ll include it here:

I’m just going to type out what’s going through my head and heart. It’s just based on what Holy Spirit walked through with me this morning.

I was thinking about the support systems that people may or may not have surrounding them. A support system is a network of people who provide an individual with practical or emotional support. In going further into the word “network,” it is a group of interconnected people. With that in mind, interconnected means that ALL parts are linked or connected.
After processing through the basic definitions, I drew the conclusion that for anyone to have a support system, the connection must go in both directions. Any healthy relationship is not a one way street and there must be relationship at the foundation of a support system. It needs to be intentional and it needs to stand the test of time, in order for the affect of a support system to withstand the purpose behind it.

Additionally, a support system needs to be both word and deed. If someone is only talking support, it will just create lip service. If they are only walking something out, but not speaking into your life, it will begin to look like control.

Depending on what your journey looks like and who you have in your corner, your support system may look very different from that of others.

Some people may need that friend that they can reach out to on occasion, while other people may need those that are willing to hold you up while you walk through the toughest parts of life.

As a friend, we have the obligation to not only learn what others need, but how to best support them. Everyone’s needs are as individual as they are. Always try to be the friend to others, that you would want to have present in your life.

Rach, Feel free to do your thing…😉😘

This year, at the cabin, I was asked to do a devotional with our group. Our friend Scott said, “Will you share something again this year? Speak on whatever’s on your heart.”

I talked about building/sustaining a culture of honor. I would be remiss not to mention that honoring the person who is in front of you is a huge way to honor God in whose image they are made. I believe this also is an ingredient in the “Cabin Family” special recipe. I believe honor will have to be another topic for another post, but know this, I honor each of the people you see in these photos not for what they do, but for who they are.

I thank God for all of my family and friends, but I wanted to highlight this particular support system. “The Cabin Family” through intentionality, vulnerability, longevity and, of course, the X factor, I have much to treasure here… it’s a good recipe!

photo credit for all above photos Janelle Elise Photography.  janelleelise.com


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Just Step Forward!

Maybe you heard the familiar phrase God doesn’t call the equipped, God equips the called. Or at least I think that’s the way it goes. Anyway, I am here to testify that if God is leading you to do something and you step forward He will provide and equip you along the way. So, what am I talking about? My recent time spent in Pennsylvania, for Global Awakenings Summer Intensive. God knows that I like adventure and for something to be familiar.(Sounds like a contradiction but it’s not, hang with me.)

I have only spoken in Pennsylvania one time, but I collected a friend and prayer partner from the church where I had the engagement. We’ve been in touch for about five years. So one day while seated on the couch in my upstairs loft, I clicked on Instagram to find out more about this summer intensive. Much to my surprise and delight, it was held in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. The only place in Pennsylvania I have ever spoken. I actually laughed out loud. Oh my goodness that is where my friend Lisa lives! She and I have been trying to figure out how to spend more time together. So I texted her and a mutual friend to see if they would be available if I were to come visit. Both of them cleared their calendars and said they would be available for the three weeks in June. One of the BIG needs I would have was immediately taken care of. Where would I stay?  I could stay with them. So here are some of the obvious steps and ways it worked out:

  • apply and get accepted, 
  • pay the application fee
  • pay the tuition
  • find housing, 
  • secure a car, 
  • book flights, 
  • find someone to pick me up at the airport, 
  • find someone to return me to the airport for the flight home, 
  • meet with my two sister-in-laws,

Another interesting point is that I have a friend who is taking classes online through the same organization, Global Awakening. I however, am so relational that I wanted to be in person in the class, on campus. This was the perfect fit for me. God knows who I am, someone who likes adventure with a mix of familiar.

So, next time I think about stepping forward I will rely on the verse from Proverbs: “the steps of a righteous man are ordered by the Lord.” Boy, oh boy! I saw how God ordered my steps so clearly. Every need I had was met every question I had was answered and the desires of my heart were met exceedingly and abundantly far beyond all I could’ve asked or imagined.

Here are a few pictures of my greeting committee to pick me up at the airport.  My dear friends Lisa and Tabitha. 

My host family on Father’s Day
I did get to have some time spent in Gettysburg with my sister-in-law.
Some of my classmates that I met from around the world while I was attending GSI 2019 as we were about minister on the streets.

I sure hope I will always remember the ways in which God clearly provided and equipped me. I think God does equip the called and provides abundantly for them. So…Just step forward! 

Yes, I cried a bit.

As I left my house early in the morning to get to the airport on time I realized I was crying a bit. I was headed to Pennsylvania for a three week summer intensive with Global Awakening. Like a child who goes off to the university and leaves home knowing they will never be the same when they return, I too knew I was about to experience something beautiful and life- changing.

I’m still processing my time away. I think too often we just hit the ground running and never look back or let things sink in…at least that can easily happen to me. I hoped writing this post would provide reflection for me and gratitude to God for all He has done. These photos give a cursory glance of my time at GSI.

Some of my outreach group “Team John” members hitting the streets, we quickly became friends and were unified.
God even knows to have me stand by, this gem, in line on orientation day.
My heart was so full and blessed to meet exceptional “younger ones” on fire for God and desiring the MORE of Him.

We put our learning into practice.

The goodness of God was met with BOLDNESS to cross over “the chicken-line” and minister on the streets. WOW! We saw God come through in big ways.
“Oh, how HE loves us so!”
Hard to explain the joy of the LORD to observers…But it makes the passage in the Bible from the book of Acts, where people thought the disciples were drunk more real.
The variety and excellence of the speakers and teachers we were exposed to over the three weeks was impressive. I felt like I was drinking from a fire hydrant.
Outreach days was a chance to see the fire of God touch people.
Oh, such fun…we got to bless ONE man, then TWO, then the WHOLE fire department!
God is a better door opener than you can imagine. His Spirit leads the way!
Largest class of Global Summer Intensive Students. (150 students GSI 2019)
I’m usually on the other side of the desks…It’s been so long since I was in class and submitting assignments, but I did it!

I watched God provide for me in unbelievable, specific ways! It is all a story for another blog post. On the final day, I headed to “my” car, which was an amazing provision of the Lord via dear friends, I cried a bit. Why? Well, I’m still processing.

I cried partly because I was sad to leave the waters I had been swimming in. It was the perfect temperature for me. I was aware that I was leaving my new friends, also my tears were of gratitude and joy because I was leaving a TRIBE of amazing world-changers who had been encountering the same things I had.

We’d all received so much from the Holy Spirit in His kindness, and through His touch. I also cried because I knew I wouldn’t see many of them again and my heart needed to release them and my tears. So yes, I cried a bit..




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Just Let Her Know

I gladly entered it in my phone’s calendar. Both time and place were decided and I was really looking forward to my coffee date with a friend. The day of our meeting I was still jazzed to be together, but I was actually leaving my house at the time I should have already arrived. I’m sure that NEVER happens to you, or does it?

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Well, I’m just being real… I knew my friend Anne would give me grace. She’s the type to be more excited about our time together, even though a few minutes delayed, then to have me show up promptly, yet be stressed out and feel condemnation. I appreciate that about her!

Still, out of love and honor for her, I texted a brief message to let her know I was running late. I knew I shouldn’t text and drive, especially in my stick shift car, so I chose the alternative, to voice text her and let her know, I was on my way.

The whole voice texting process was such a debacle. All I was TRYING TO DO was alert my friend, I’m running late, I’ll be there soon… But that’s NOT what I communicated at all.

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I shifted into third gear, spoke into the phone and tried again. I slightly modified the message a bit: “It’s now already 11:00, but I’m on my way… see you soon!”

This time I requested be read back to me it said: “LOVE, It’s O’Clock see you tonight!”

I thought… What? No, no, no she’ll think I thought our meeting was for tonight! I can’t send it. CANCEL message

I sent another message… I said, It’s already eleven, on my way see you soon!

YIKES! But this time the text read back as, “It’s now already seven, on my way! Save me some!“

I cried aloud through a frustrated laugh, No, no, no! She’ll think I want to order something and she is supposed to SAVE me SOME of it! But she won’t know what I want to order!

Finally, I sent a VERY simple text.

When this fiasco happened, I got to thinking about communication, more specifically, miscommunication. I’ll admit, I was a bit frustrated at first because I was late and I was driving and was trying to get my actual meaning across before I arrived.

Then, a moment later, it brought me a lot of joy and laughter. I laughed at myself and also giggled at how convoluted the whole communication debacle became. I couldn’t wait to tell Anne about it, and I did. We had a good time over it!

Other than letting you know there is great freedom in not taking yourself too seriously or being too hard on yourself, here’s my cursory take-away.

  • Never let someone else do the talking for you.
  • Say what you mean and mean what you say. (This one has bit me in the butt before.)
  • If it’s communication talking to God, called prayer just straight up tell Him honestly what you want to say, how you are feeling and then let the Holy Spirit make groans for you! He’ll do the interceding before God, along with Jesus who ever lives to intercede for us. I’m so thankful there isn’t the whole get it perfect or He’ll be confused part. He knows us. He made us. He knows our intentions, desires and motives better than we know our own.
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Here are a few scriptures for you to consider related to being known and making our requests known to Him:

  • “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 NKJV
  • Search me, God, and know my heart; try me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there’s any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalms 139:23, 24
  • “In the morning, Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly.” Psalm5:3NIV
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If the communication involves your children this is my go to verse:

  • “Arise, cry out in the night, as the watches of the night begin; pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord. Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children, who faint from hunger at every street corner.” Lamentations2:19NIV

I hope this silly texting miscommunication story helps you and encourages you too. No matter what you are going through, know that God cares and he get your messages. my advice, no matter what you are going through, just let Him know.




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A House of “Help Yourself”

During a recent conversation with my hostess for a summer intensive class I will be attending, she said, “Rachel, people who know me well, know my house is a house of help yourself!”

She was so gracious as we chatted and planned and I became more aware of how intimately God knows my every need. He’s been so kind. I was interested in attending these classes but never thought I could get a long enough break in my weekly, yearly rhythms to take them. But one day, as I scrolled through social media, I ran across a post about a summer intensive where the year long program could be accomplished in three weeks.

My interest was peaked, so I began to move forward. I had considered taking the courses through the on-line programs offered, but never moved forward because the thought of sitting in front of a computer didn’t appeal to me.

It must have been stored away for later retrieval because the day I scrolled through INSTAGRAM the post hit me enough to check it out more fully. God in his kindness knows how he made me, duh! He made me relational…very relational. So the thought of being in class with students opposed to on-line classes really interested me.

Hmm? Where is this summer intensive held? I wondered. I clicked to find out…But first, let me give you a bit of background about me. I am a woman who, like a coin has two sides…heads and tails, I have two sides to my way of operating and my personality. I like both an adventure and I like familiarity. You may think these two cannot exist. But here is how it played out.

I’ve only spoken once in the state my class will be held. It was maybe four and a half years ago. Often, I connect with people from locations where I speak. Obviously, I cannot keep in touch with everyone, yet sometimes we just CLICK with people, right? I call it collecting friends. The way my pant legs collect burrs when walking through the fields.

Well, as soon as this gal, named Lisa, prayed for me, I KNEW we’d be friends. I quickly snatched her up and asked her to be part of my ministry prayer team. She prayed and cheered for me as I wrote my first book, Lily Pads-Stories of God on Display. Lisa is the author of the book, Every Little Detail. Yep! She is one I’ve collected, a special friend from the church where I spoke and we have kept in touch over the years and distance.

When I clicked the INSTAGRAM post I was delighted… What? Seriously? This is crazy! I know that town, I’ve been there…I’ve spoken there!

Come to find out the school is located in the only Pennsylvanian town I have spoken in, the one from all those years earlier. A town just fifteen minutes from my friend Lisa’s house.

I was so excited! God knows I like adventure with familiar. I connected immediately with Lisa, my gem of a collected friend, and get this… I have the opportunity to stay in her home for the duration of my summer intensive.

I see God in every little detail, He’s ordered my steps and taken care to put me in a familiar place with a friend for this new adventure.

The process is well underway and these needs have already been provided:

  • Live classroom style learning
  • Dietary needs
  • Transportation
  • A dear friend
  • Housing

It’s not just any ole’ housing either, but the house of a friend in whom I delight. Numerous times we’ve both said, “When will you be able to visit me? We’ve gotta figure out how to spend more time together.” I’m excited to further develop our relationship and land in the house of “Help Yourself!”

About a week after I sent in my registration I found out I also know a missionary couple who will also be attending the summer intensive with me. It was one of those, “Golly, it’s a small world!” type things.

Can you see the hand of God in your life? Are you aware of how you’re being led? Do you have some unknowns? Do you need guidance? Here is a promises:

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Psalm 32:8 NIV

As I prepare to attend this summer intensive, I watch God continue to guide me and order my steps. I’m delighted to report He has been in “every little detail” and landed me in the home of a dear friend who has not only written a book called Every Little Detail, but informed me, “Rachel this is the ‘House of Help Yourself!'”



Out of the Norm

Often when I take my walk I’m all about how quickly I can get a mile in, or whether the subsequent miles are faster than my first ones but not today. Today, I kept stopping along the trail to take pictures of the sites it was absolutely fabulous.


  • Sun rising in clear cerulean blue sky.
  • Moon still making its appearance in its full  beauty. 
  • Redwinged blackbird
  • Canada goose and her two babies
  • Bird with a fish in its talons
  • Bicyclist 
  • Tiny child’s tennis shoe set on a park bench
  • Robins in the grasses and on the paths 
  • Green grass with what looked like scattered diamonds of dew as the sun struck each droplet.


  • Honking geese flying overhead 
  • Wind whistling in the trees 
  • Traffic and tires on the highway
  • Footsteps approaching from behind me as a runner passed by
  • “Good morning!” Greeting from a runner after I said, “Hello!”
  • Sniffles as I tried to keep my nose from running faster than the athletes near me. 
  • One older gentleman came toward me on the path. He said, “Good morning! Well, I hope the wind is your friend.”
  • To which I replied. “Yeah, I have so many clothes on and I kept adding to them even in the parking lot!”

Allow me to show you a few things I encountered on this beautiful, brisk, sunny, windy, morning’s walk.

My prayer for you today is that you would get out of your norm and busy schedule, enough to receive the Father‘s love for you. Remember, sometimes this love comes via your eye gate or your ear gate and most certainly through your heart’s gate!












Before the walk this was my morning greeting! A sign of His love a gorgeous God painting sunrise was the view from my sister’s home. 


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What a Difference a Day Makes.

I sat on the deck and ate a delicious summer salad topped with pineapple, blueberries and strawberries. Quite pleased with myself, I said, “Man, that was terrific!” It was so warm I decided to find my swimsuit. I quickly changed and ran back out so I could gather a bit more vitamin D as I soaked up the sunshine.

I didn’t put all the cushions on the chairs but made a nice cozy place to sun bathe. It was so glorious to be outside after a long and very cold winter. THIS FEELS FABULOUS! After about an hour, I collected the cushions and stowed them safely away because there was a promise of snow in the near future.

That glorious day of sunning was only a few days ago and yesterday’s weather did a complete 180 degree turn around. Sure enough, what was forecasted, an April winter snow storm hit. The snow was very beautiful but it made it seem as if  I had only dreamt about sitting outside in my swimsuit after a tasty lunch.

My husband and I were both home inside and thankful because it grew increasingly colder and the snow fell and collected on the lawn and trees all around us. I felt like we were the fixed characters in a snow globe. It seemed as if someone had shaken our globe and we were now in a magical winter wonderland. When I was a little girl, I’d heard the phrase, “April showers bring May flowers.” I think it usually meant rain showers not snow showers!




I will admit, it was so beautiful. The snow began lightly and increased as time went on. I stared out the window in amazement as if repeating the date…“It’s April 10th!” was going to stop the events unfolding before me. I had come home about an hour before it started snowing and immediately put layer upon layer of clothes, “BURRRRRR!” I finished  with a huge scarf that I wore for hours.

So here’s what it all made me think about today. What about this latest snowfall can I learn in my own life and my walk of faith? I began to consider: I can expect the unexpected to happen. If God has promised things in my life I can believe they will happen even if it seems unlikely based on my current circumstances.





I sure didn’t think, sitting outside on the deck in my swimsuit, it would snow. It didn’t seem possible even though it was forecasted and promised that it was coming. Let me list a few of the promises of God for encouragement. Let’s believe in the promises of God. Let’s put our hope in the things He has said more than the things we may have staring us in the face today in our current situation.

  • Before they call I will answer; while they are still speaking I will hear. Isaiah 65:24   (God hears your prayers)


  • If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 (God will forgive you.)


  • He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6b (God will complete His work in you.)


  • And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 (God will provide your needs)


  • What I have said, that will I bring about; what I have planned, that will I do.  Isaiah 46:11b (God will not forget His promise. )


  • And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. Matthew 28:20b (God will be with you.)

I like this quote, “I don’t believe in the power of positive thinking, I believe in Biblical optimism- based on the promises and character of God.” Steve Backlund.

Let me recap for my sake and yours. Remember, it doesn’t matter what seems or feels true. Our circumstances or current situation… They are like me sitting in the sunshine unaware of the “promised” snow… it all can change, this is THE TRUTH:

  •  God will forgive you.
  •  God will complete his work in you.
  • God will not forget his promise.
  • God will provide your needs.
  • God hears your prayers.
  • God will be with you.

Even if the promise seems as unlikely as a spring snow storm, it can happen, in God ‘s timing things can turn around. He is for us not against us, remember that! And by the way, happy Spring!

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Tune In or Tune it OUT?

The hum of the tree stump grinder and blower was constant, followed by the high-pitched chain saw’s whine as branches were being trimmed and removed from my neighbor’s backyard trees. I couldn’t decide whether I wanted to try to decipher what each sound was or whether it would be best to just get up and look to see what was going on.

I made my list for the day and decided to read the final chapters of a book written by an author I will be interviewing in the future for “the real deal” podcast. Usually, I sit in the quietness of my home and hardly have any distractions. Not the case this morning.

I looked out my window, across the street my neighbors had a crew re-roofing their home. An extension ladder was leaned against the house with another smaller one propped up a few feet beside it to a lower section of the roof.

A blue tarp lined portions of the yard and bushes protecting them from all the debris falling from above. Shingles lined the driveway the way pickup trucks lined my street.  This morning was very atypical as there was a flurry of activity. I didn’t know whether to watch or sit down and try to read. I wasn’t sure which window to gaze out first, front or back?


I thought, should I tune in and watch all the transformational work going on around me? Or should I try to tune it out? Golly, that’s the magic question I have to ask myself and decide on often. What do I pay attention to and what should I tune out in my life? 


I was aware of the fact that when I looked out the back windows and concentrated my attention there, I was missing what was going on in the front of my home simultaneously.  I took some photos.

Then suddenly, the other neighbor’s two basset hounds, began to bark, first one then the other. Like I was listening in stereo. Woof… WOOF, WOOF… woof. WOOF, WOOF, WOOF, WOOF, WOOF! I decided to write this blog instead. I got the idea, tuning in or tune it out, from what was happening.

Oh my word, it was comical, it was a cacophony all around me: truck engines roared, dogs barked, men talked and shouted, the grinder growled and blew as wood chips shot through a tube into the tree service truck, additional cars passed by and weaved through the unusually congested street. Next, the wind gushed and activated the wind chime near my front step. It all made a big crescendo for a moment.


Then, over time,  little by little one truck after another pulled away as the tasks were completed.  I cannot watch it all. I will miss something for sure! Isn’t that like the activity of life and even of God? I’m certain that when I see what He’s doing in one area of my life, He’s actually working on another area at the same time unknown to me.

I may think He’s trimming something out of my life and that’s the only activity going on. Only to realize, little did I know, He’s got a crew of angels, people and activity going on in a whole other area. I must tune into this: His grand design is so much bigger than my small little plans.



So today, as the men have now sat down to have lunch break, I’ve decided to finish this blog and pick the book up again to get a few chapters finished. I hope you are able to tune into God’s voice and his activity in your life. I also pray that we both will be able to know what things we need to pay attention to and what to tune out.

We need to and can TUNE IT OUT:

  • fear
  • worry/anxiety
  • hopelessness
  • discouragement
  • panic

How do we do that tune it out?  Don’t concentrate on the above list rather…release the opposite.  These are available and can be released in the Holy Spirit:

  • God’s perfect love- which casts out fear!
  • Peace that passes understanding
  • Hope- the confident expectation of good things to come
  • Courage- doing it afraid
  • Rest and Praise –these are powerful weapons 
  • Thanksgiving- a way to enter His gates 

We can have restful hearts, in the midst of all the spin, because God is always working. He also has a flurry of activity going on all around us. He is for us, he’s not against us, so be at rest.

We can TUNE IN to these characteristics and truths…His:

  • Goodness,
  • Faithfulness
  • Kindness
  • Attention to detail
  • Redemptive work
  • Melody He is singing over us as we sleep
  • Good plans he has for us and our futures.

Yes, my morning was unusual. It was NOT quiet, but oddly enough, my heart was!

“In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength,” Isaiah 30:15a







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